Day 42 – Yucking Someone’s Yum

Today I am challenged to contemplate if I have ever been a hater of someone else’s work, or a killer of someone else’s dreams. I can’t remember if or when this has happened, but I’d be a fool to think I haven’t spoiled something someone else was into…the facilitators of my recent GLSEN conference called this “yucking someone’s yum.”

“Yucking someone's yum" creates vivid imagery, reminding me of the power our words and actions can wield. It's a reminder that even the most well-intentioned individuals can unknowingly cast shadows upon someone's passions. As I reflect on this concept, I can recall moments when my immeasurable enthusiasm may have inadvertently dimmed the light of someone else's joy.

Yet, to deliberately engage in criticism or dream-killing requires an intent that has never felt congruent with my values. Everyone’s journey is a unique collection of hopes and dreams, and I've always strived to encourage and celebrate journeys rather than stand in people’s way. Yet, it's humbling to recognize that, despite my intentions, I might have unknowingly dampened someone's spirits—my words casting a shadow, concealing their sunshine.

In this reflection, I am reminded of the interconnectedness of our lives. Just as I have nurtured dreams, I’ve been lifted by the words and actions of others. It's a reminder of the responsibility we carry to uplift, empower, and champion those around us, allowing their dreams to flourish alongside our own. Even the smallest gestures can hold tremendous weight—supportive words, encouraging glances, a smile and nod of approval.

I emerge from this contemplation with a renewed commitment. I commit to being ever vigilant, to casting my support, enthusiasm, and understanding into the lives of those I encounter. Each new day offers me a chance to champion the dreams of others, to ensure that we're all free to savor our individual "yums" without fear of judgment or negativity.

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