Day 25 - Blending Societal & Personal Decisions

Wow! I’m a quarter of the way through the Hello, Fears Challenge already.

Today I’m challenged to come up with decisions in my life that I chose because of societal expectations or to make someone else happy and then identify other decisions that I’ve made for my own happiness.

Looking back at each step I’ve taken—graduating from high school, getting married, buying cars and houses, pursuing formal education, and becoming a parent—was like pieces of a puzzle that shaped my life.

While I realize some decisions may have been influenced by societal norms, I have no regrets because each one has brought me immense value and growth. Well, maybe except for the money pit we call our current house!

There was one decision that stands out as a personal victory—saying NO to a surgeon who suggested altering the size of my nose while correcting my deviated septum. I've always loved my nose, despite occasional comments from others.

It was a proud moment when I held firm to my self-acceptance.

It's curious how even after my deviated septum surgery, my nose changed shape. I hope it was just a natural outcome, and not a few extra cuts while I was under anesthesia!

Through this challenge, I'm learning to embrace both my conscious and subconscious decisions, finding gratitude in each step that brought me here.

Holly's profile to show off their nose, no improvement necessary.